I mentioned in “Getting Started”, it is difficult to simply sit and meditate. This does not me that the task should be seen as daunting– it is your right and privilege. However, just as if you wanted to learn to speak a new language or learn calligraphy, you start with small steps. In order to meditate successfully, you must develop a different understanding of your how your mind works– you don’t try to stop thinking or suppress the thoughts– you learn to understand them and to look at them as separate from you (that’s getting a little esoteric). In a sense, you have thoughts; but, you are not your thoughts. The problem is, at the beginning (and maybe for a long time afterwards), you identify with them– I think therefore I am. In “Getting Started” (8/2/2014) I mentioned introspection, spend some time just allowing the mind to unfold. But, do this with a playful attitude– be amused and amazed at your inner workings– 1,2,3 minutes in a quiet room is amazing. If you really want to go further, after introspection, just begin to work with the breath. Don’t over complicate it, deep breathing, awareness at the diaphragm (below the breastbone, above the navel) 1,2,3 minutes. Just focus on the breath and let the thoughts continue to come… There you go, you’re on your way.
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Just getting started… Hoping it’s useful.
As not a technically savvy person, learning to create this blog will be a meditation in and of itself. For those of you who know me already, I am so excited to have an unfettered home base. For those of you who are new friends, I hope you will find this blog useful. In fact that is a nice place to start… If you are interested in meditation, it is helpful to practice introspection. That way when the you sit, you are not subject to the Hollywood trailer-like unfolding of your subconscious. Allow you mind a few minutes to just unwind. Don’t judge what comes up– it’s all good, they’re are just thoughts and don’t define you. You can playfully decide which ones are useful to cultivate and which to consider to be not useful. This can also be done during the day– I periodically pause at work or making dinner to laugh at the thought train and decide which thoughts are worth staying with and which are just my silly mind.
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